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“I think I’m gay Dr. Julie” Sharon whispers in a soft, hesitant voice. She goes on to tell me that for as far back as she can remember, she’s always been attracted to females. She’s always felt ashamed and embarrassed by it. She tried to deny it for many years. Even marrying a man in hopes her attraction to women would fade. But it didn’t work. Throughout the marriage, she would fantasize about women while they would have sex. All of her life, she has watched all girl porn. Watching girls turns her on so much. But it makes her feel so guilty at the same time.
I asked her why this made her feel guilty. I told her that she had nothing to feel ashamed or embarrassed about. We all need and crave different things to feel fulfilled sexually. It’s natural. We can’t help it. No matter how hard we try to suppress those feelings, they will be there. Trying to ignore them will only make them stronger. Depriving yourself of what you truly want and need isn’t fair or healthy. You deserve happiness and fulfillment in life. This is a part of your life that you can’t ignore.