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“A man has needs Dr. Julie” Derek whispers, as if he feels guilty. He begins to open up to me, and he tells me that his wife grew up in a very strict, religious family. She feels like sex is sinful unless it’s for reproduction. They met when they were teenagers, married young, and went on to reproduce eleven times in fifteen years. He confides that the sex was always missionary, and purely intercourse. But at least he was getting something. It’s been ten years since she’s had any desire for sex. She sees no reason for it. To have sex for enjoyment alone wasn’t an option. He doesn’t even think she’s ever had an orgasm. But he feels guilty fantasizing about sex, and he even thought about going to a Happy Ending Massage Parlor once. Although he could never really do such a thing. He can’t even masturbate because she has made him feel so bad about his sexual desires. I assured him that his feelings, needs, and desires were all natural, and he had absolutely no reason to feel guilty. Orgasms are healthy and necessary for the body. They build the immune system and help prevent diseases.